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His and His

Matthew and Paul

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His and His

His and His

Matthew and Paul

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Join creative couple Matthew and Paul as they explore provocative questions about love, relationships, and culture. Support His and His on Patreon and get weekly extended episodes, a monthly bonus episode, and more! More info at: http://Patreon.com/hisandhis

Latest Episodes

Opposite-Sex Attraction: Kissing Girls and Shooting Squirrels

EMatthew and Paul discuss their histories with opposite-sex attraction. Paul reveals how societal pressure caused him to explore relationships with girls in High School, while Matthew describes the time his mother picked out his future wife. Matthew and Paul also address the question, “Does gender even matter?” Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

18 min1 w ago
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Opposite-Sex Attraction: Kissing Girls and Shooting Squirrels

Top, Bottom, or Vers?

EMatthew and Paul continue their discussion about sexual positions in the gay community. Matthew reveals why he thinks “Masc” and “Fem” stereotypes are problematic, and Paul describes the first time he and Matthew confronted the issue of sexual versatility. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

14 min2 w ago
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Top, Bottom, or Vers?

Sexual Positions: Where are all the Tops?

EMatthew and Paul are talking about sexual positions in the gay community, specifically the idea of Top, Bottom, and Versatile. Are these labels strictly for the bedroom, or do they somehow extend into our own personalities? Matthew describes his own transformation from “Cult Boy to Jock Daddy”, while Paul explains how the TV show “Queer As Folk” was his first introduction to the world of gay terminology (despite having never seen an episode). Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

18 min3 w ago
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Sexual Positions: Where are all the Tops?

Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul discuss their faith journeys, and whether they’ll teach their kids about God. Then, Matthew reveals his most memorable moment as a teacher, and Paul describes learning Braille. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

21 minSEP 21
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Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

EMatthew and Paul are talking about marriage equality. Paul reveals what it was like growing up in a world that didn’t recognize same-sex marriage, and Matthew explains his own feelings about civil unions and domestic partnerships. Matthew and Paul also discuss the United States Supreme Court ruling that officially legalized gay marriage in June, 2015. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

20 minSEP 14
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Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

EMatthew and Paul are talking about having kids! Matthew describes belonging to the same religious cult as The Duggars, who famously had 19 children (and a popular reality show), while Paul reveals what it was like to have an abusive older sibling. Matthew and Paul explain how these experiences shaped their own desire for children, while also discussing options they’ve explored as a married couple. Finally, they talk about the potential challenges of raising a child with Paul’s disability. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 minSEP 7
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Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

EOn this episode Matthew and Paul discuss their experiences with multiple partners. Paul remembers dating a guy who had a shower built for the sole purpose of fitting 5 guys in it. While Matthew recounts an experience that didn’t live up to his expectations. Matthew and Paul also dive into the term “Monogamish” — coined by Dan Savage — and the intricacies of sexually open relationships. To listen to this entire episode visit: https://www.patreon.com/posts/41042268

4 minAUG 31
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Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul dive into their college experiences, reveal their most memorable meals, and divulge the best advice they ever received. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

27 minAUG 24
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Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

EMatthew and Paul discuss the details of their own proposal story. Matthew explains how he pulled off the ultimate surprise, and Paul reveals the moment from his perspective. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

25 minAUG 17
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Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

EMatthew and Paul discuss the topic of marriage proposals. Matthew reveals a childhood fantasy of being swept off his feet, while Paul reminisces about the romantic comedies that shaped his youth. Matthew and Paul also explain how they decided who would propose when it came to their own engagement. And, finally, the hosts kick off a new segment of the show called “The Love Manual”. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 minAUG 10
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Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

Latest Episodes

Opposite-Sex Attraction: Kissing Girls and Shooting Squirrels

EMatthew and Paul discuss their histories with opposite-sex attraction. Paul reveals how societal pressure caused him to explore relationships with girls in High School, while Matthew describes the time his mother picked out his future wife. Matthew and Paul also address the question, “Does gender even matter?” Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

18 min1 w ago
Comments
Opposite-Sex Attraction: Kissing Girls and Shooting Squirrels

Top, Bottom, or Vers?

EMatthew and Paul continue their discussion about sexual positions in the gay community. Matthew reveals why he thinks “Masc” and “Fem” stereotypes are problematic, and Paul describes the first time he and Matthew confronted the issue of sexual versatility. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

14 min2 w ago
Comments
Top, Bottom, or Vers?

Sexual Positions: Where are all the Tops?

EMatthew and Paul are talking about sexual positions in the gay community, specifically the idea of Top, Bottom, and Versatile. Are these labels strictly for the bedroom, or do they somehow extend into our own personalities? Matthew describes his own transformation from “Cult Boy to Jock Daddy”, while Paul explains how the TV show “Queer As Folk” was his first introduction to the world of gay terminology (despite having never seen an episode). Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

18 min3 w ago
Comments
Sexual Positions: Where are all the Tops?

Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul discuss their faith journeys, and whether they’ll teach their kids about God. Then, Matthew reveals his most memorable moment as a teacher, and Paul describes learning Braille. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

21 minSEP 21
Comments
Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

EMatthew and Paul are talking about marriage equality. Paul reveals what it was like growing up in a world that didn’t recognize same-sex marriage, and Matthew explains his own feelings about civil unions and domestic partnerships. Matthew and Paul also discuss the United States Supreme Court ruling that officially legalized gay marriage in June, 2015. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

20 minSEP 14
Comments
Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

EMatthew and Paul are talking about having kids! Matthew describes belonging to the same religious cult as The Duggars, who famously had 19 children (and a popular reality show), while Paul reveals what it was like to have an abusive older sibling. Matthew and Paul explain how these experiences shaped their own desire for children, while also discussing options they’ve explored as a married couple. Finally, they talk about the potential challenges of raising a child with Paul’s disability. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 minSEP 7
Comments
Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

EOn this episode Matthew and Paul discuss their experiences with multiple partners. Paul remembers dating a guy who had a shower built for the sole purpose of fitting 5 guys in it. While Matthew recounts an experience that didn’t live up to his expectations. Matthew and Paul also dive into the term “Monogamish” — coined by Dan Savage — and the intricacies of sexually open relationships. To listen to this entire episode visit: https://www.patreon.com/posts/41042268

4 minAUG 31
Comments
Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul dive into their college experiences, reveal their most memorable meals, and divulge the best advice they ever received. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

27 minAUG 24
Comments
Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

EMatthew and Paul discuss the details of their own proposal story. Matthew explains how he pulled off the ultimate surprise, and Paul reveals the moment from his perspective. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

25 minAUG 17
Comments
Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

EMatthew and Paul discuss the topic of marriage proposals. Matthew reveals a childhood fantasy of being swept off his feet, while Paul reminisces about the romantic comedies that shaped his youth. Matthew and Paul also explain how they decided who would propose when it came to their own engagement. And, finally, the hosts kick off a new segment of the show called “The Love Manual”. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 minAUG 10
Comments
Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees
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