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Starr Burroughs: Author, Coach, Speaker, Christian

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The Confident Single Woman

The Confident Single Woman

Starr Burroughs: Author, Coach, Speaker, Christian

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If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in! Join Starr Burroughs, author of "The Ineligible Bachelorette" and Love Coach to single women, as she uncovers the truth behind why so many women are single AND what they can do about it. Married now for 9 years, she brings insight into our current dating culture (especially Christian culture) and empowers the single woman to live life confidently and boldly.

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#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture? Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.” I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame. You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/confidentsinglewoman Find Kat Harris here: Podcast: The Refined Collective Podcast by Kat Harris Website: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com Courses: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com/shop Instagram: @therefinedwoman Free Online Community: www.Bit.ly/trwdatingtips Recommended books by Kat Harris: 1. Girls and Sex by Peggy Orenstein 2. Redeeming Sex by Deborah Hirsch 3. Sex God by Rob Bell 4. The Mingling of the Souls by Matt Chandler 5. The Wait by DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good 6. Theology of the body by Christopher West 7. Every Good Endeavor by Timothy Keller 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com

31 MIN4 d ago
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#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

#141: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 1) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture? Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.” I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame. You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/confidentsinglewoman Find Kat Harris here: Podcast: The Refined Collective Podcast by Kat Harris Website: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com Courses: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com/shop Instagram: @therefinedwoman Free Online Community: www.Bit.ly/trwdatingtips Recommended books by Kat Harris: 1...

37 MIN1 w ago
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#141: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 1) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

#140: The Consequences of Not Liking Yourself

If you’ve ever struggled with self-condemnation or simply not liking yourself, you’ll want to listen to this episode! I talk about 3 specific consequences that happen in the dating life of a single person who struggles with actually liking herself. This is also for the person who deal with low self-esteem or self-worth. Tune in to learn about how this affects your dating life! 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com

21 MIN2 w ago
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#140: The Consequences of Not Liking Yourself

#139: 3 Signs You Need a Man's Validation

Have you ever caught yourself seeking validation from a man? Going on dates wondering, hoping that he chooses you. Maybe you’ve felt your best about yourself when you’re dating. Or you feel most valuable when you have a man’s attention. If you’ve caught yourself needing to feel important and valued, but you can only get those feelings when a man chooses you, then you’re seeking validation from a man. Tune in to today’s episode, 3 Signs You Need a Man’s Validation, to learn if this is you! 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Email: Starr@StarrBurro...

22 MIN3 w ago
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#139: 3 Signs You Need a Man's Validation

#138: Christian's Story: From Dateless to Exclusive

If you’ve ever struggled with believing marriage is going to happen for you, then please listen to this episode. Christian was in a place where she genuinely, and constantly, questioned if she’d EVER get married. In fact, she told me once that she simply didn’t believe she ever would. She wanted to believe it, hoped for it, but deep down she was deeply unsure. Her story is a common one - not an avid dater, distracted with life and its responsibilities, and not putting any focus on her love life slowed down her progress toward love. However, in time, that plot line began to change. Tune in to learn about the shift that happened for Christian and how she went from overcoming big mental and emotional hurdles, to being in a committed relationship with an incredible man! To learn more about group coaching: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/GroupCoaching To schedule your call: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/ExploratoryCall 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www...

123 MINJUL 13
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#138: Christian's Story: From Dateless to Exclusive

Melanie's Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married

Melanie’s Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married Have you ever wondered what it’ll be like to go from single to married? Of course you have! You’ve probably dreamed about that a thousand times! In this episode, I talk with Melanie, a former client, about her journey from singleness to marriage. She was like many of the women I know - unwilling to get married just for the sake of getting married! She didn’t want to settle, wasn’t interested in just any man, had her standards in place, but wasn’t making any headway in the love department. Tune in and listen and she takes us on her journey from online dating frustrations, long distance dating challenges, and overcoming personal obstacles in order to have a great relationship. Now … she got married in a Pandemic and is loving life with her new husband! Tune in and share! SCHEDULE CALL HERE: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/ExploratoryCall GROUP COACHING DETAILS HERE: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/GroupCoaching 7 Quest...

146 MINJUL 6
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Melanie's Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married

#136: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating

I want every single woman to be able to apply solid discernment and judgment to her unique dating life. Too often, I see women applying popular, quotable pieces of dating advice that, at first glance, appear to be great advice for any situation. However, we can get in trouble if we’re constantly applying this generalized advice to our specific circumstances and unique self. In this episode, I discuss how to have solid discernment for yourself, your man, and your circumstances, especially for those gray areas. It’s time to be more careful in applying good, but generalized advice to the specific details your unique dating life. Here’s how … Tune into today’s episode: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating. The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift J...

27 MINJUN 29
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#136: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating

#135: How To Allow a Man to Disrupt Your Manicured Life

Do you really want to get married? Are you interested in someone disrupting the life you’ve created for yourself? Are you willing, able, interested in making room for him? Today I talk about how to allow a man to disrupt your manicured life. Many, many women deeply desire marriage, but when it’s time to commit, or date someone promising it’s too easy for them to nitpick the man to death … and then walk away from the possibility of a future with him. Why? Maybe it’s because she likes her life as-is and doesn’t have room in her life for a flawed man. If you’re wondering if that’s you, then tune in to today’s podcast! The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Face...

26 MINJUN 22
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#135: How To Allow a Man to Disrupt Your Manicured Life

#134: The Importance of Shared Interests, Hobbies, or Passions

It is so important to have shared interests with a prospective boyfriend. When you have shared hobbies, passions, or interests at least you’ll have an easier time connecting. Your commonalities helps take the pressure of the first few dates because it’ll be easier to get to know each other, which leads to greater chances of actually feeling chemistry with that person. In this episode, I go over why shared hobbies are important and how they will help you in the dating world. So, if you’d like to more easily connect and feel chemistry with prospective men tune in to learn about how shared interests, hobbies, and passions can help you do that! The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com...

28 MINJUN 8
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#134: The Importance of Shared Interests, Hobbies, or Passions

#133: Looking For Security In All The Wrong Places

Too often I see women who give too much time to the wrong men, are attracted to the wrong men, say their “picker” is off, and are wondering where all the good men are (they’re already married, they say!). No doubt is it hard to find the “right one” these days, and yes, it’s also hard to find quality guys. I understand that. But if we can get on the right path, with the right standards, healing the right wounds, making the right mistakes, then we may find the “right one” sooner, rather than later. In today’s episode, I talk about how fear causes us to crave security. Too often, many women end up searching for security in all the wrong places. If you’re curious, tune in! Get 10% off at Faithful Counseling: https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman Psalm 20:7 Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God. (NIV) 2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. (NKJV) Email: S...

26 MINJUN 1
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#133: Looking For Security In All The Wrong Places

Latest Episodes

#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture? Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.” I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame. You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/confidentsinglewoman Find Kat Harris here: Podcast: The Refined Collective Podcast by Kat Harris Website: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com Courses: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com/shop Instagram: @therefinedwoman Free Online Community: www.Bit.ly/trwdatingtips Recommended books by Kat Harris: 1. Girls and Sex by Peggy Orenstein 2. Redeeming Sex by Deborah Hirsch 3. Sex God by Rob Bell 4. The Mingling of the Souls by Matt Chandler 5. The Wait by DeVon Franklin and Meagan Good 6. Theology of the body by Christopher West 7. Every Good Endeavor by Timothy Keller 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com

31 MIN4 d ago
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#142: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 2) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

#141: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 1) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

As a woman, were you taught how to suppress your sexuality in the Christian culture? Suppression looks different to different people, but if you’ve ever felt ashamed of your desire for sex, your sexuality, or simply about being a woman then please listen to this episode, “How to Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman.” I interview Kat Harris of “The Refined Woman” and she goes into detail about what sexuality is, what it looks like if we’re ashamed of our sex drive, how to embrace your sexuality in a biblical way, and how to overcome shame. You won’t want to miss this! Tune in and share! Faithful Counseling (10% off first month): https://www.faithfulcounseling.com/confidentsinglewoman Find Kat Harris here: Podcast: The Refined Collective Podcast by Kat Harris Website: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com Courses: https://www.TheRefinedWoman.com/shop Instagram: @therefinedwoman Free Online Community: www.Bit.ly/trwdatingtips Recommended books by Kat Harris: 1...

37 MIN1 w ago
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#141: How To Embrace Your Sexuality and Desire as a Single Christian Woman (Part 1) with Kat Harris of The Refined Woman

#140: The Consequences of Not Liking Yourself

If you’ve ever struggled with self-condemnation or simply not liking yourself, you’ll want to listen to this episode! I talk about 3 specific consequences that happen in the dating life of a single person who struggles with actually liking herself. This is also for the person who deal with low self-esteem or self-worth. Tune in to learn about how this affects your dating life! 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Email: Starr@StarrBurroughs.com

21 MIN2 w ago
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#140: The Consequences of Not Liking Yourself

#139: 3 Signs You Need a Man's Validation

Have you ever caught yourself seeking validation from a man? Going on dates wondering, hoping that he chooses you. Maybe you’ve felt your best about yourself when you’re dating. Or you feel most valuable when you have a man’s attention. If you’ve caught yourself needing to feel important and valued, but you can only get those feelings when a man chooses you, then you’re seeking validation from a man. Tune in to today’s episode, 3 Signs You Need a Man’s Validation, to learn if this is you! 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Facebook Page: http://www.facebook.com/starrburroughsbooks The Ineligible Bachelorette: https://amzn.to/2xmE49u Email: Starr@StarrBurro...

22 MIN3 w ago
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#139: 3 Signs You Need a Man's Validation

#138: Christian's Story: From Dateless to Exclusive

If you’ve ever struggled with believing marriage is going to happen for you, then please listen to this episode. Christian was in a place where she genuinely, and constantly, questioned if she’d EVER get married. In fact, she told me once that she simply didn’t believe she ever would. She wanted to believe it, hoped for it, but deep down she was deeply unsure. Her story is a common one - not an avid dater, distracted with life and its responsibilities, and not putting any focus on her love life slowed down her progress toward love. However, in time, that plot line began to change. Tune in to learn about the shift that happened for Christian and how she went from overcoming big mental and emotional hurdles, to being in a committed relationship with an incredible man! To learn more about group coaching: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/GroupCoaching To schedule your call: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/ExploratoryCall 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www...

123 MINJUL 13
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#138: Christian's Story: From Dateless to Exclusive

Melanie's Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married

Melanie’s Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married Have you ever wondered what it’ll be like to go from single to married? Of course you have! You’ve probably dreamed about that a thousand times! In this episode, I talk with Melanie, a former client, about her journey from singleness to marriage. She was like many of the women I know - unwilling to get married just for the sake of getting married! She didn’t want to settle, wasn’t interested in just any man, had her standards in place, but wasn’t making any headway in the love department. Tune in and listen and she takes us on her journey from online dating frustrations, long distance dating challenges, and overcoming personal obstacles in order to have a great relationship. Now … she got married in a Pandemic and is loving life with her new husband! Tune in and share! SCHEDULE CALL HERE: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/ExploratoryCall GROUP COACHING DETAILS HERE: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/GroupCoaching 7 Quest...

146 MINJUL 6
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Melanie's Story: From Single and Searching to Happily Married

#136: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating

I want every single woman to be able to apply solid discernment and judgment to her unique dating life. Too often, I see women applying popular, quotable pieces of dating advice that, at first glance, appear to be great advice for any situation. However, we can get in trouble if we’re constantly applying this generalized advice to our specific circumstances and unique self. In this episode, I discuss how to have solid discernment for yourself, your man, and your circumstances, especially for those gray areas. It’s time to be more careful in applying good, but generalized advice to the specific details your unique dating life. Here’s how … Tune into today’s episode: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating. The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift J...

27 MINJUN 29
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#136: How To Use Discernment to Interpret the Gray Areas of Dating

#135: How To Allow a Man to Disrupt Your Manicured Life

Do you really want to get married? Are you interested in someone disrupting the life you’ve created for yourself? Are you willing, able, interested in making room for him? Today I talk about how to allow a man to disrupt your manicured life. Many, many women deeply desire marriage, but when it’s time to commit, or date someone promising it’s too easy for them to nitpick the man to death … and then walk away from the possibility of a future with him. Why? Maybe it’s because she likes her life as-is and doesn’t have room in her life for a flawed man. If you’re wondering if that’s you, then tune in to today’s podcast! The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com/facebook-group Face...

26 MINJUN 22
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#135: How To Allow a Man to Disrupt Your Manicured Life

#134: The Importance of Shared Interests, Hobbies, or Passions

It is so important to have shared interests with a prospective boyfriend. When you have shared hobbies, passions, or interests at least you’ll have an easier time connecting. Your commonalities helps take the pressure of the first few dates because it’ll be easier to get to know each other, which leads to greater chances of actually feeling chemistry with that person. In this episode, I go over why shared hobbies are important and how they will help you in the dating world. So, if you’d like to more easily connect and feel chemistry with prospective men tune in to learn about how shared interests, hobbies, and passions can help you do that! The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA 7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/standards The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: http://www.starrburroughs.com/gift Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman http://www.starrburroughs.com...

28 MINJUN 8
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#134: The Importance of Shared Interests, Hobbies, or Passions

#133: Looking For Security In All The Wrong Places

Too often I see women who give too much time to the wrong men, are attracted to the wrong men, say their “picker” is off, and are wondering where all the good men are (they’re already married, they say!). No doubt is it hard to find the “right one” these days, and yes, it’s also hard to find quality guys. I understand that. But if we can get on the right path, with the right standards, healing the right wounds, making the right mistakes, then we may find the “right one” sooner, rather than later. In today’s episode, I talk about how fear causes us to crave security. Too often, many women end up searching for security in all the wrong places. If you’re curious, tune in! Get 10% off at Faithful Counseling: https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman Psalm 20:7 Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the Lord our God. (NIV) 2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. (NKJV) Email: S...

26 MINJUN 1
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#133: Looking For Security In All The Wrong Places
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