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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

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Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

Latest Episodes

Dating with Disability (w/ Santina Muha)

EActress and comedian Santina Muha (One Day at a Time, Curb Your Enthusiasm) answers the worst questions to ask someone in a wheelchair, shares some of the aggressive messages she's received on dating apps, and asks to include disability in today's conversation about diversity. Plus, Nicole recaps her experience 'Facetime dating' in quarantine. Support BLM. For a list of resources and places to donate click here:https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/ Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

61 MIN6 d ago
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Dating with Disability (w/ Santina Muha)

If You See It, You Can Be It (w/ Kirby Howell-Baptiste)

EActress Kirby Howell-Baptiste (The Good Place, Barry, Why Women Kill) discusses the rise in "Karens", managing life after death, and the reality of the Black experience. Plus, they share personal stories of racial bias, the importance of seeing representation in media, and how to raise a new generation of active allies. Check out @black.owned.everything on Instagram or officialblackwallstreet.com for a list of Black-owned businesses near you. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

69 MIN1 w ago
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If You See It, You Can Be It (w/ Kirby Howell-Baptiste)

Foundations of a Successful Relationship (w/ AJA)

ERapper and former drag queen AJA (RuPaul'sDrag Race S9,All Stars S3) catches up with Nicole on the #BlackLivesMatter protests, discussing Black history erasure and how people can be a good ally in the movement. AJA dishes on Drag Race, admitting they were extremely high on edibles during the filming. Plus, they share how they met their biological parents this year, and provides advice on the foundational layers every successful relationship needs. For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here:https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/ Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

64 MIN2 w ago
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Foundations of a Successful Relationship (w/ AJA)

How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

E"Sex is always better when you can be yourself during it" Jinkx Monsoon (Winner of Rupaul's Drag Race S5) dishes about fulfilling race chaser fantasies, heteronormative roleplay, how their Grindr use has changed since being on Drag Race, and so much more. Also, Nicole shares the only appropriate time to yell 'NAILED IT' at her. For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here:https://linktr.ee/dragher Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

66 MIN3 w ago
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How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

Butt Stuff (w/ Monét X Change)

EDrag queen Monét X Change (RuPaul's Drag Race, winner of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars S4) shares the story about how they got their first STD from a race chaser, breaking up with their partner on Thanksgiving, and offers tips how to ease into butt stuff. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://linktr.ee/dragher For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our drag queen episode playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

57 MINJUN 5
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Butt Stuff (w/ Monét X Change)

Embrace Your Sloppy (w/ Michelle Buteau)

EThe wonderful comedian Michelle Buteau (Always Be My Maybe, host of The Circle) discusses owning her sexuality, raising twins, being denied the ability to adopt kids, and so much more. Nicole and Michelle share their worst moments getting drunk on a plane, how the public keeps mistaking them for one another, and if having big tiddies makes it easier or harder to date For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

62 MINMAY 29
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Embrace Your Sloppy (w/ Michelle Buteau)

Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

EBenDeLaCreme (RuPaul's Drag Race, RPDR All Stars) chats about how he deals with other people's traumas, getting gaslight by their therapist, and whats it's like to move in with a new boyfriend right before the pandemic. Plus, he explains his initial excitement to attain Race Chasers, and what made him so angry before his proposal. For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

71 MINMAY 22
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Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

EOh boy, this episode is a juicy one. Comedian/actress Giulia Rozzi (Girl Code) speaks to Nicole about the struggles of being pregnant in quarantine, if she has any worries about raising a bi-racial child, and learning to not feel guilty about your privilege. Plus, Giulia teaches Nicole the best way to reach out to an old fling, and how to remain friends with an ex-husband. For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

57 MINMAY 15
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Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

EComedian Tawny Newsome (Space Force) chats with Nicole about learning how to do your own hair in quarantine, their crazy fashion phases, and the current state of "Zoom dating" along with the crazy logistics behind it. For more Nicole Byer, check out her new podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

63 MINMAY 8
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Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

Quarantine Breakup (w/ Jamie Loftus)

E"On what date do you reveal you're a merperson?" Comedian and TV writer Jamie Loftus (Robot Chicken, host of The Bechdel Cast) theorizes what it must be like being broken up but quarantined together, shares her fascination with balloon fetishists, and how 'Zoom-dating' has been working for people. Plus, Nicole's so dang horny, she's asking her roommate to sleep with her. For more Nicole Byer, check out her new podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

38 MINMAY 1
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Quarantine Breakup (w/ Jamie Loftus)

Latest Episodes

Dating with Disability (w/ Santina Muha)

EActress and comedian Santina Muha (One Day at a Time, Curb Your Enthusiasm) answers the worst questions to ask someone in a wheelchair, shares some of the aggressive messages she's received on dating apps, and asks to include disability in today's conversation about diversity. Plus, Nicole recaps her experience 'Facetime dating' in quarantine. Support BLM. For a list of resources and places to donate click here:https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/ Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

61 MIN6 d ago
Comments
Dating with Disability (w/ Santina Muha)

If You See It, You Can Be It (w/ Kirby Howell-Baptiste)

EActress Kirby Howell-Baptiste (The Good Place, Barry, Why Women Kill) discusses the rise in "Karens", managing life after death, and the reality of the Black experience. Plus, they share personal stories of racial bias, the importance of seeing representation in media, and how to raise a new generation of active allies. Check out @black.owned.everything on Instagram or officialblackwallstreet.com for a list of Black-owned businesses near you. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

69 MIN1 w ago
Comments
If You See It, You Can Be It (w/ Kirby Howell-Baptiste)

Foundations of a Successful Relationship (w/ AJA)

ERapper and former drag queen AJA (RuPaul'sDrag Race S9,All Stars S3) catches up with Nicole on the #BlackLivesMatter protests, discussing Black history erasure and how people can be a good ally in the movement. AJA dishes on Drag Race, admitting they were extremely high on edibles during the filming. Plus, they share how they met their biological parents this year, and provides advice on the foundational layers every successful relationship needs. For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here:https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/ Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

64 MIN2 w ago
Comments
Foundations of a Successful Relationship (w/ AJA)

How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

E"Sex is always better when you can be yourself during it" Jinkx Monsoon (Winner of Rupaul's Drag Race S5) dishes about fulfilling race chaser fantasies, heteronormative roleplay, how their Grindr use has changed since being on Drag Race, and so much more. Also, Nicole shares the only appropriate time to yell 'NAILED IT' at her. For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our episode playlist on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here:https://linktr.ee/dragher Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

66 MIN3 w ago
Comments
How to Date Virtually (w/ Jinkx Monsoon)

Butt Stuff (w/ Monét X Change)

EDrag queen Monét X Change (RuPaul's Drag Race, winner of RuPaul's Drag Race All Stars S4) shares the story about how they got their first STD from a race chaser, breaking up with their partner on Thanksgiving, and offers tips how to ease into butt stuff. Support Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and places to donate click here: https://linktr.ee/dragher For more drag queens on Why Won't You Date Me, check out our drag queen episode playlist on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5cHUfQGWK4AtSXxQkMB0CY Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

57 MINJUN 5
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Butt Stuff (w/ Monét X Change)

Embrace Your Sloppy (w/ Michelle Buteau)

EThe wonderful comedian Michelle Buteau (Always Be My Maybe, host of The Circle) discusses owning her sexuality, raising twins, being denied the ability to adopt kids, and so much more. Nicole and Michelle share their worst moments getting drunk on a plane, how the public keeps mistaking them for one another, and if having big tiddies makes it easier or harder to date For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

62 MINMAY 29
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Embrace Your Sloppy (w/ Michelle Buteau)

Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

EBenDeLaCreme (RuPaul's Drag Race, RPDR All Stars) chats about how he deals with other people's traumas, getting gaslight by their therapist, and whats it's like to move in with a new boyfriend right before the pandemic. Plus, he explains his initial excitement to attain Race Chasers, and what made him so angry before his proposal. For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

71 MINMAY 22
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Don't Comment on my Body (w/ BenDeLaCreme)

Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

EOh boy, this episode is a juicy one. Comedian/actress Giulia Rozzi (Girl Code) speaks to Nicole about the struggles of being pregnant in quarantine, if she has any worries about raising a bi-racial child, and learning to not feel guilty about your privilege. Plus, Giulia teaches Nicole the best way to reach out to an old fling, and how to remain friends with an ex-husband. For more Nicole Byer, check out her other podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

57 MINMAY 15
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Fast n' Friendly Divorce (w/ Giulia Rozzi)

Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

EComedian Tawny Newsome (Space Force) chats with Nicole about learning how to do your own hair in quarantine, their crazy fashion phases, and the current state of "Zoom dating" along with the crazy logistics behind it. For more Nicole Byer, check out her new podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

63 MINMAY 8
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Doing Your Own Hair (w/ Tawny Newsome)

Quarantine Breakup (w/ Jamie Loftus)

E"On what date do you reveal you're a merperson?" Comedian and TV writer Jamie Loftus (Robot Chicken, host of The Bechdel Cast) theorizes what it must be like being broken up but quarantined together, shares her fascination with balloon fetishists, and how 'Zoom-dating' has been working for people. Plus, Nicole's so dang horny, she's asking her roommate to sleep with her. For more Nicole Byer, check out her new podcast -Newcomers! Her and Lauren Lapkus are watching and reviewing Star Wars films for the very first time.Subscribe today so you don't miss an episode. RateWhy Won't You Date Me 5-stars on Apple Podcastsand leave a dirty comment for a chance to have it read on-air. Follow Nicole Byer: Tour Dates:nicolebyerwastaken.com/tourdates Twitter:@nicolebyer Instagram:@nicolebyer Facebook:www.facebook.com/nicolebyercomedy Buy Merch:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 Pre-order Nicole's new book:www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

38 MINMAY 1
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Quarantine Breakup (w/ Jamie Loftus)
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