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His and His

Matthew and Paul

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His and His

His and His

Matthew and Paul

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Join creative couple Matthew and Paul as they explore provocative questions about love, relationships, and culture. Support His and His on Patreon and get weekly extended episodes, a monthly bonus episode, and more! More info at: http://Patreon.com/hisandhis

Latest Episodes

Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul discuss their faith journeys, and whether they’ll teach their kids about God. Then, Matthew reveals his most memorable moment as a teacher, and Paul describes learning Braille. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

21 min1 w ago
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Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

EMatthew and Paul are talking about marriage equality. Paul reveals what it was like growing up in a world that didn’t recognize same-sex marriage, and Matthew explains his own feelings about civil unions and domestic partnerships. Matthew and Paul also discuss the United States Supreme Court ruling that officially legalized gay marriage in June, 2015. Please take a look at Paul’s Kickstarter and help him make “The Pengrooms”, an LGBTQ+ children’s book that celebrates gay marriage: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pengrooms/the-pengrooms

20 min2 w ago
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Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

EMatthew and Paul are talking about having kids! Matthew describes belonging to the same religious cult as The Duggars, who famously had 19 children (and a popular reality show), while Paul reveals what it was like to have an abusive older sibling. Matthew and Paul explain how these experiences shaped their own desire for children, while also discussing options they’ve explored as a married couple. Finally, they talk about the potential challenges of raising a child with Paul’s disability. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 min3 w ago
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Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

EOn this episode Matthew and Paul discuss their experiences with multiple partners. Paul remembers dating a guy who had a shower built for the sole purpose of fitting 5 guys in it. While Matthew recounts an experience that didn’t live up to his expectations. Matthew and Paul also dive into the term “Monogamish” — coined by Dan Savage — and the intricacies of sexually open relationships. To listen to this entire episode visit: https://www.patreon.com/posts/41042268

4 minAUG 31
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Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul dive into their college experiences, reveal their most memorable meals, and divulge the best advice they ever received. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

27 minAUG 24
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Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

EMatthew and Paul discuss the details of their own proposal story. Matthew explains how he pulled off the ultimate surprise, and Paul reveals the moment from his perspective. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

25 minAUG 17
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Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

EMatthew and Paul discuss the topic of marriage proposals. Matthew reveals a childhood fantasy of being swept off his feet, while Paul reminisces about the romantic comedies that shaped his youth. Matthew and Paul also explain how they decided who would propose when it came to their own engagement. And, finally, the hosts kick off a new segment of the show called “The Love Manual”. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 minAUG 10
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Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

Pornography: Sin Juice and Family Jewels

EMatthew and Paul are talking abut gay pornography. Paul remembers the moment he saw porn for the very first time, while Matthew describes the day he was caught watching porn on the family computer (while holding the family jewels). Matthew and Paul also discuss their individual journeys with shame, and how they learned to overcome those feelings. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

26 minAUG 3
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Pornography: Sin Juice and Family Jewels

Relationships: Friends Who Fight

EMatthew and Paul are working on their relationship, and they spend this episode sharing the details of that journey. They discuss the importance of a foundational friendship, the use of “positive sentiment override”, and why fighting isn’t the sign of a relationship in ruin. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

26 minJUL 27
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Relationships: Friends Who Fight

Ask Me Anything: Warm Days, Hot Guys

EWelcome to our first AMA, courtesy of the His and His Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul discuss their plans for the future, what inspires them most about each other, and whether or not they have a “Free Pass”. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

32 minJUL 20
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Ask Me Anything: Warm Days, Hot Guys

Latest Episodes

Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul discuss their faith journeys, and whether they’ll teach their kids about God. Then, Matthew reveals his most memorable moment as a teacher, and Paul describes learning Braille. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

21 min1 w ago
Comments
Ask Me Anything: Top and Bottom

Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

EMatthew and Paul are talking about marriage equality. Paul reveals what it was like growing up in a world that didn’t recognize same-sex marriage, and Matthew explains his own feelings about civil unions and domestic partnerships. Matthew and Paul also discuss the United States Supreme Court ruling that officially legalized gay marriage in June, 2015. Please take a look at Paul’s Kickstarter and help him make “The Pengrooms”, an LGBTQ+ children’s book that celebrates gay marriage: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/pengrooms/the-pengrooms

20 min2 w ago
Comments
Marriage Equality: Monks and Barbies

Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

EMatthew and Paul are talking about having kids! Matthew describes belonging to the same religious cult as The Duggars, who famously had 19 children (and a popular reality show), while Paul reveals what it was like to have an abusive older sibling. Matthew and Paul explain how these experiences shaped their own desire for children, while also discussing options they’ve explored as a married couple. Finally, they talk about the potential challenges of raising a child with Paul’s disability. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 min3 w ago
Comments
Gay Dads: Surrogacy and Adoption

Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

EOn this episode Matthew and Paul discuss their experiences with multiple partners. Paul remembers dating a guy who had a shower built for the sole purpose of fitting 5 guys in it. While Matthew recounts an experience that didn’t live up to his expectations. Matthew and Paul also dive into the term “Monogamish” — coined by Dan Savage — and the intricacies of sexually open relationships. To listen to this entire episode visit: https://www.patreon.com/posts/41042268

4 minAUG 31
Comments
Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes

Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

EWelcome to another Ask Me Anything episode courtesy of our Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul dive into their college experiences, reveal their most memorable meals, and divulge the best advice they ever received. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

27 minAUG 24
Comments
Ask Me Anything: College Boys and Throuples

Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

EMatthew and Paul discuss the details of their own proposal story. Matthew explains how he pulled off the ultimate surprise, and Paul reveals the moment from his perspective. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

25 minAUG 17
Comments
Our Proposal Story: Surprising Bottoms On Mountain Tops

Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

EMatthew and Paul discuss the topic of marriage proposals. Matthew reveals a childhood fantasy of being swept off his feet, while Paul reminisces about the romantic comedies that shaped his youth. Matthew and Paul also explain how they decided who would propose when it came to their own engagement. And, finally, the hosts kick off a new segment of the show called “The Love Manual”. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

28 minAUG 10
Comments
Gay Proposals: Down on Both Knees

Pornography: Sin Juice and Family Jewels

EMatthew and Paul are talking abut gay pornography. Paul remembers the moment he saw porn for the very first time, while Matthew describes the day he was caught watching porn on the family computer (while holding the family jewels). Matthew and Paul also discuss their individual journeys with shame, and how they learned to overcome those feelings. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

26 minAUG 3
Comments
Pornography: Sin Juice and Family Jewels

Relationships: Friends Who Fight

EMatthew and Paul are working on their relationship, and they spend this episode sharing the details of that journey. They discuss the importance of a foundational friendship, the use of “positive sentiment override”, and why fighting isn’t the sign of a relationship in ruin. Join Our Family Support His and His on Patreon and get monthly bonus episodes, weekly extended episodes, and more! More info: https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

26 minJUL 27
Comments
Relationships: Friends Who Fight

Ask Me Anything: Warm Days, Hot Guys

EWelcome to our first AMA, courtesy of the His and His Patreon Family. No question is too big, too small, or too personal. Matthew and Paul discuss their plans for the future, what inspires them most about each other, and whether or not they have a “Free Pass”. If you’re interested in getting your very own AMA episode, become a Major Benefactor at https://www.patreon.com/hisandhis

32 minJUL 20
Comments
Ask Me Anything: Warm Days, Hot Guys
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